Eight Septembers have passed, and with them eight graduating classes.

Something occurred to me today as I was sitting at the infinite stoplight,* deciding how to handle the significance of This Day. Some years I make a big deal out of It, centering all class material around it. Some years I do my best to ignore It. Usually I offer the kids the opportunity to read/write/discuss about something related to It for the first or last fifteen minutes of class, and just let It be afterwards. But here's what struck me as hauntingly profound at 6:00 AM as I sat cradled in my bucket seat, left foot engaging the clutch and right hand fondling the shifter in anticipation of the eventual green light: 

There are only a few years' worth of students left who will remember It. To all others for the rest of my career, It will be a piece of history that exists in books and news clips and was ALWAYS a part of life -- much like Pearl Harbor or JFK's assassination were to me during my childhood.

And after that thought, I felt a strong duty to preserve the memory in the students who have it. For the past several years I have resented It, angry not so much that it happened but more that so many bad things have come about as a result of it (see the Doonsbury cartoon about "9/11" being the answer for everything). This resentment has been reflected in the light and detached way in which I handle It in my classroom. 

But today I felt this strong connection to my students through our ability to share memories of Where We Were; a connection I will no longer have with my students in a few years. I was nearing college graduation when It happened. My current seniors were in fourth grade and my current sophomores were in second grade. They were not old enough to understand what was happening, but they were old enough that they remember it much like I "remember" the Challenger explosion or Princess Di's wedding. 

I suspect that this is something that happens to teachers as we age. Maybe my high school teachers felt light years away from me because I was born into a completely different world than they knew. I have done a great deal of thinking over the past two years or so about what teaching will be like when I no longer have the privilege of seeming almost like an older sister to my students -- the perception that I am younger than most of their other teachers, and therefore have more in common with them. I have tried my best to ensure that I do not center my teaching practices around my students' immediate connection to me due to my age -- but I have never stopped to think that sometimes I relate to them in a reciprocal way. We remember many of the same things. 

When the light finally did turn green, I did not realize it for a few seconds. I glanced in my rearview mirror, amazed that no one was honking or gesturing at me for my delay in accelerating maniacally to the next light. As a matter of fact, there was no one behind me at all... and then I remembered that it was, after all, 6:00 AM and most people in my new neighborhood awake at this hour are still hitting their snooze bars or sloughing off dead skin cells in the shower. It felt very appropriate that I seemed alone on the road in my new neighborhood. It mirrored how I feel there in the first place, and in my chronological placement in the nether-regions somewhere between my students and my older colleagues. 

My infinite stoplight meditation set the tone for the day. As I taught each of my classes, tutored students in the Writing Lab, and met with newspaper staffers I was comforted and grateful that they, too, remember. As my sophomores discussed language in the novel Alas, Babylon, I could not help but point out the similarity of our "9/11" label to the story's "The Day" label. I barely had to explain it, and they got the connection.

 I swallowed hard, reminding myself that in the near future students will walk into my room unaware that those numbers didn't always bear such weight. 

* The "infinite stoplight" is my term of endearment for the five-minute stoplight I sometimes catch between home and work. 

Comments

[collegegirl]

My students and I talked about 9-11 today, although most of them were 5 or 6 years old when it happened, many of them still feel some affect of 9-11 since then. A majority of my students are of the Muslim faith and it was interesting to see how 9-11 has affect them over the past years, even as new immigrants to America. It is incredible to be able to sit down and say I remember with my students (at least the older ones), but I do feel that gap as I can easily recall being in my spanish class watching the news when they just knew something had happened and that is all. We talked about it- it wasn't our main subject today but we did talk and had a moment of silence... just to remember.